People, did you know there is a kitchen sink button on wordpress visual editor? It gives you a second toolbar of options for formatting the blog post.
Sure, after the fact when you think about it, a button that includes everything AND the kitchen sink makes sense. After the fact. I imagine I’ve scrolled over the button and when it said ’show/hide kitchen sink’, I gave it a fleeting, “what the hell?” but did not click.
But, sheesh, I’ve been annoyed for 3 years that there were so little options to prettify the posts. So, I suppose, now I’ve reduced that stress.
BUT, another part of me has always been very relieved that there were so few options.. because really, I can get very caught up in all the possibilities of anything creative. Do I have time to fuss with pretty posts, in additon to all the other technical creative opportunities like building and maintaining my website? doing newsletters? producing my books? I even have moments where I wonder why I ever learned photoshop because I can get immersed in a silly psd project for hours!
So, ya, okay… maybe there was less stress not knowing about the kitchen sink button. Now I’m going to feel obligated to fuss with this creatively.
Wait a sec. I think it’s okay. There’s not many options in the kitchen sink area. No font changing options without going into html.
Hang on…. there’s a ‘copy from word’ button… let’s just see if it let’s me copy without turning the document into words scattered randomly over the page with huge spaces, blanks and otherwise unreadable formatting errors. (That only has value for poets)
‘Testing the copy from Word button.’
Alrighty, that didn’t work. That phrase should have been pretty.
Phew. Discovering the kitchen sink button has not given me many options at all. Thank goodness.
So, what do you think? Probably could have let go the ‘annoyed’ part three years ago and instead consciously thanked my lucky stars that there’s so few creative options here? yup.
And now it seems I have written about reducing stress after all:
Stress Reduction Rule #1: Check in with the stressors. Are they a ’stress’ only because somewhere there is a ’should’ guiding you? (like me thinking I ’should’ make my posts more creatively pleasing since I’m a creative person.)
Are you stressed because you ’should’ be going to the gym because media says so but really you hate the gym and don’t go anyway? (That’s a cry to find a way to keep active that you love! Personally, tonight I danced in the yard just to hear the crunch of frosty sparkling grass under my feet)
Are you stressed because your house should be perfectly tidy because your in-laws who keep a ‘perfect’ house and who do not have 4 young children expect you to keep yours the same way? Put that way, it becomes pretty clear that that is one stressor to let go.
Do you think you should vacuum daily and get upset with yourself when you don’t? Do you know that, unless there is a person in your home with allergies, nobody cares? Did your mother teach you that your home had to be vacuumed daily – yet you, unlike her, work out of the home, volunteer, drive three kids to soccer, each at different fields in different parts of the city, and somehow magically get them there even if they all start at the same time? Yes, it’s time to let go the ‘vacuum daily’ value.
Give yourself permission to notice what is stressing you.. the little things for starts. Decide if they are a ’should’ do, or an old belief, or a value that no longer serves any purpose and then.. let it go. Celebrate by sipping a hot cup of tea, curling up in your favourite chair, and doing ‘nothing’.
and me? Changing font colour in a post is just not that exciting. I am now going to pretend I never found the kitchen sink button. Oh, the relief of not having to make my posts pretty. Phew.
Please feel free to share a stressor that you think you might be able to let go. Your comment might be one that triggers ‘aha’ moments for others! In this case, the more, the merrier.. literally!